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March 9, 2017 - 1:42 pm

Hello all! My name is Claudia, my husband is addicted to cocaine and in the past he has disappeared for days . It will be a year since the last time he relapsed. I find out two days ago that he has been drinking a beer or two while he is fishing or if he comes home early behind my back for 9 months. Even though he's not doing drugs now, I am a nervous wreak thinking that any day he is going to disappear. We have a baby girl she is two years old and loves her daddy very much. My husband has a good job and we love a peaceful life. We stay away from clubs and bars and the only "parties" we do is at home with our family, !nothing crazy and very family oriented. I have helped and supported my husband through everything. We have gone to meetings and all. Now I'm worried that his beer or two will lead to something else. I can't live like this anymore. I suffer from anxiety and OCD! When will I be at peace! Thank you xoxo

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March 10, 2017 - 2:04 pm

I find that keeping the focus on myself, helps me tremendously. Plus I keep program literature in my purse to help through the day , especially when I feel that I'm thinking to much about my qualifier.

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March 10, 2017 - 6:20 pm

Thank you! Haven't felt sick to my stomach in almost a year, which was the last time he disappeared, but from the moment I get home I just want to lay in bed. I have to focus on my daughter and I love him but I have this sick feeling in my stomach.. it's a nightmare

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March 18, 2017 - 7:38 pm

Are you working a program Claudia? It might help you focus more on yourself then worrying about what he is doing.

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March 22, 2017 - 2:41 pm

I'm started to attend online meetings last week, and now when I try to log on it says my name has already been used and does not let me log on

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March 28, 2017 - 9:08 pm

Make sure you are not logged on with any other device. Or try restarting your computer.

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