Hi
Recently I discovered that my husband of 40 years has been buying cocaine from our son (who is 40 yo), and our son has been a drug addict for 2+ years. I’m devistated as all the work that went into trying to help him get over his addiction was instantly wiped away by my husband buying drugs from him. My husband has turned into someone I don’t know anymore. He is 65, and wants to “work less”, but uses the excuse that coke “helps him work harder”. He works independently for some people as a handyman, and we have a couple of rental properties. He just bought another rental property, that will need alot of work. He has “disapeared” a couple of nights (his phone shows the rental property, but he does not answer). My husband had a problem with coke 20 years ago, and we worked through it. This time, nothing. No “I’m sorry”, no remorse. He is verbally abusive, and arrogant, leaving his “snot” anywhere…sorry tmi but best example. Addiction runs in the family, this caused our other son to revert back to alcohol, not an excuse at all, but he feels like if they can smoke coke, and no one does anything, why is everyone all over me for alcohol. I’ve worked with him on that and we seem in a better place now. But how do I proceed with my coke addicted husband and son? Any advice would be helpful.
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